The Divorce Process

Aug 8, 2012 by

It can be a good idea to make sure you know the basic facts about getting a divorce before you jump in and make decisions that could create a legal and financial disaster for yourself. What many people don’t understand is that divorces are basically civil lawsuits, and must be pursued in court according to the rules of the state you live in. The divorce laws vary from state to state, and it is always a good idea to at least consult a divorce attorney before taking the plunge on your own. If you decide to obtain legal representation in your divorce case, you will still need to understand the basic rules of the divorce procedure. You will have important decisions to make during the divorce and you will need to understand how the process works. Fortunately, there are a number of ways you can educate yourself and learn how to divorce your spouse with as little hassle as possible.

Researching divorce online is the fastest way to learn. There are thousands of websites online that cover every aspect of how to divorce as well as info on a variety of legal, financial and family issues related to divorce. Websites that are state-specific might be able to provide you with information on how divorce laws are applied in a particular area. Attorneys are very well represented on this website and finding several lawyers that specialize in divorce or family law in your area will not be difficult at all.

In some areas there might be classes on divorce available through schools or city governments. There are also court-affiliated programs for divorcing parents available in every state in the country. Some states (Connecticut, Florida and Utah) make the classes mandatory for all divorcing parents with dependant children in the home. Divorce classes could also be called parenting classes because the instruction revolves around improving family communication skills and helping to make the divorce transition less traumatic for everyone involved. You also have the option of hiring a professional divorce planner to help you out. Certified Divorce Planners (CDP) and Certified Divorce Financial Analysts (CDFA) have specific education and training on the issues of divorce, especially financial issues. They can also provide assistance in settlement negotiations and long-range financial planning.

Divorce Mediators are another resource for couples who are still on speaking terms. A mediator might be able to help work out most of the issues of your divorce before you get to court. A mediator can help complete and file the legal documents needed by both parties, but they do not make any decisions for either spouse. The mediation process is based on agreement between both parties and allows them to control of the terms and conditions of their own settlement agreement instead of the terms being dictated by the divorce court. Because mediation is based on compromise and agreement, it often delivers satisfactory results for both sides. Mediation is not only less expensive and contentious; it usually will not take nearly as long as a divorce case that goes through a court trial. It also allows both spouses to have some control instead of relinquishing control to the court. While going through a divorce is never a pleasant experience, if you do some preparation and have a clear understanding of the procedure, it could be a better beginning for everyone involved.

 

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