My husband was cheating is that help for the kids to stay with me?
Who decides who keeps the kids because I want them to stay with me, my husband was cheating is that help for the kids to stay with me?
If you and your husband are able to come to an agreement about custody of your children, then the court will not have to decide custody and visitation. This would be less expensive and probably less stressful for you. However, if you are unable to reach an agreement, then a Texas court will decide custody issues based on the “best interests” of the children. The court will presume that joint custody (shared custody of your children between your husband and yourself) is in the best interests of your children.
If you believe joint custody is not in the best interests of your children, then you can prove this to the court. If the court is deciding on whether to award primary custody to one parent, it will consider the health, safety, and welfare of the children. The court may look at the mental and physical health of each parent, how close they live to each other, the history between the child and the parent, and any evidence of child abuse. Also, if you have any children that are over the age of 12, the court will consider his or her preference. The fact that your husband cheated will not be taken into account unless, for some reason, it affects the best interest of your child.
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