Husband won’t talk to me.

Aug 8, 2012 by


I have tried to ask my husband why’s and how come’s. He blames me for pushing him away, I’ve done everything to make him happy. I put my family first my whole life, well our kids have grown up – last one graduates 2010 June. I’ve been treated like I don’t exist – how can anyone live like this? I need out and him to pay for 20 years.

New Jersey


It is regrettable that after 20 years of marriage, you feel betrayed by your spouse.  That really is terrible and we hope that you can find happiness in the near future.

Should you ultimately decide on divorce, New Jersey Code, Title 2A, Chapter 34, Article 1, #2 lists the causes for divorce.  In your situation, irreconcilable differences listed as cause of action (i) seems most appropriate.  Remember that a divorce is a civil action that requires filing in court, so we always recommend seeking a competent local attorney who is familiar with New Jersey laws and can guide you through the legal process.

Wendy Jaffe and can only provide general information about divorce. DO NOT RELY ON MS. JAFFE’S ADVICE ALONE. Before acting on information provided by Ms. Jaffe or by, talk to an attorney first about your particular facts and the law of your state. By submitting your question to, you are not creating an attorney/client relationship with Ms. Jaffe or with any of the other attorneys listed on this site.


Related Posts

Share This

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *