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Washington Divorce FAQ: 50 Most Common Questions Answered
Divorce is complicated, and Washington's laws can be confusing. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the process, you probably have questions. This comprehensive FAQ answers the 50 most common questions Washington residents ask about divorce, organized by topic for easy navigation.
Disclaimer: This FAQ provides general information about Washington divorce law but is not legal advice. Laws change, and every situation is unique. Consult with a qualified Washington family law attorney about your specific circumstances.
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After Divorce
46. When is my divorce final in Washington?
Your Washington divorce is final when the judge signs the divorce decree and it's filed with the court. You'll receive a stamped copy of the final decree. This is usually several weeks after your final hearing. You're not legally divorced until you have this final Washington decree.
47. What do I need to do after my Washington divorce is final?
Get certified copies of decree, change name on driver's license and Social Security card, update estate planning documents and beneficiaries, divide retirement accounts via QDRO, transfer property titles as ordered in your Washington decree, change health and other insurance, open separate bank accounts, and establish credit in your own name.
48. Can I appeal my Washington divorce decree?
Yes, but appeals are difficult and expensive. You must file Notice of Appeal within 30 days of the final Washington decree. Appeals typically only succeed if the judge made legal error in applying Washington law, the decision was against manifest weight of evidence, or the judge abused discretion. Consult an appellate attorney.
49. What if my ex violates the Washington divorce decree?
You can file a motion for contempt of court in Washington. The court can enforce the decree through fines, makeup time, attorney fees paid by violating party, modification of custody/support, or jail time for repeated violations. Document all violations with dates and specifics.
50. Can we modify our Washington divorce decree later?
Some provisions can be modified under Washington law, others cannot. Child custody and support can be modified if substantial change in circumstances. Spousal support can be modified if decree says "modifiable." Property division and debt allocation are final once decree signed in Washington. You must file a post-decree motion to modify.
Special Situations
41. What if my spouse is hiding assets in Washington?
Washington requires full financial disclosure under oath. If you suspect hidden assets, request formal discovery (interrogatories, document requests), subpoena financial records, hire a forensic accountant ($3,000-$15,000), and review unusual transfers or withdrawals. Washington courts penalize spouses who hide assets severely.
42. How does domestic violence affect Washington divorces?
Domestic violence significantly impacts custody and support decisions in Washington. The court considers any history of abuse when determining custody, often creating a presumption against the abuser having custody. Protection orders can be requested during Washington divorce proceedings for safety.
43. What if my spouse refuses to sign divorce papers in Washington?
Your spouse cannot prevent divorce in Washington. If they refuse to cooperate, have them served by sheriff or process server, request default judgment if they don't respond, or proceed with contested divorce if they respond but won't cooperate. Washington is a no-fault state—you don't need spouse's permission to divorce.
44. Can I get an annulment instead of divorce in Washington?
Washington allows annulments in limited circumstances proving the marriage was never valid: bigamy, underage marriage without consent, mental incompetence, fraud, or force/duress. Annulment is much harder to obtain than divorce in Washington and doesn't solve property/support issues differently.
45. What about military divorces in Washington?
Military divorces in Washington follow state law with federal protections. Servicemember's Civil Relief Act (SCRA) may delay proceedings if spouse is deployed. Military retirement benefits earned during marriage are divisible under Washington law. Consider consulting an attorney experienced in military divorces in Washington.
Legal Representation
36. Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Washington?
No, Washington allows self-representation. However, consider an attorney if your spouse has one, you have significant assets or debts, you own a business, there are contested custody issues, there's domestic violence history, you suspect hidden assets, or your spouse is being unreasonable. Simple uncontested divorces often work well with online service assistance.
37. What is limited scope representation in Washington?
Limited scope representation (unbundled services) means hiring a Washington attorney for specific tasks only, rather than full representation. Examples include reviewing documents, consulting on strategy, appearing at one hearing, or drafting settlement agreements. This saves money while getting professional help on crucial issues.
38. How do I find a good divorce attorney in Washington?
Contact the Washington State Bar Association for referrals, ask friends/family for recommendations, check attorney websites for family law experience, read online reviews (with caution), and schedule consultations with 2-3 attorneys before choosing. Ask about fees, experience with your issues, and communication style.
39. Can I change attorneys during my divorce in Washington?
Yes. You have the right to change attorneys in Washington at any time. You'll need to notify your current attorney in writing, file a notice of substitution of counsel with the court, and potentially pay your former attorney for work already completed. Changing attorneys mid-case can cause delays and increase costs.
40. What should I bring to my first attorney consultation in Washington?
Bring marriage certificate, prenuptial agreement (if any), list of all assets and debts, recent pay stubs and tax returns, information about children, any existing court orders, timeline of marriage events, and questions you want answered. Being organized makes the consultation more productive.
Spousal Support
31. How does Washington determine spousal support (alimony)?
Washington courts consider multiple factors including income and earning ability of each spouse, age and health, duration of marriage, standard of living during marriage, education and employability, contributions as homemaker, and other relevant circumstances. Not all divorces result in spousal support—it depends on the specific situation.
32. How long does spousal support last in Washington?
Duration depends on circumstances in Washington. Short marriages (under 5 years) rarely result in long-term support. Longer marriages may result in support for several years or indefinitely. Common types include rehabilitative support (temporary while recipient gets training), transitional support (adjustment period), and permanent support (rare, usually very long marriages).
33. Can spousal support be modified in Washington?
Washington typically allows modification of spousal support if there's been a substantial change in circumstances like job loss, retirement, remarriage, cohabitation, or significant income change. Check if your Washington decree states support is "modifiable" or "non-modifiable"—non-modifiable support cannot be changed except by mutual agreement.
34. Does spousal support end if my ex remarries in Washington?
Typically, yes—unless your Washington decree specifically states otherwise. Most spousal support orders automatically terminate when the recipient remarries. However, orders don't always terminate for cohabitation—check your specific decree language and Washington law.
35. Are spousal support payments tax deductible in Washington?
No, not for divorces finalized after December 31, 2018. This is federal tax law affecting all states including Washington. For divorces finalized before January 1, 2019, spousal support is tax deductible for the payer and taxable income for the recipient.
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Child Support
26. How is child support calculated in Washington?
Washington uses guidelines considering both parents' incomes, number of children, health insurance costs, childcare expenses, and parenting time allocation. Washington provides a child support calculator (often available online) to estimate payments, but courts can deviate from guidelines if circumstances warrant.
27. Does child support end at age 18 in Washington?
Child support obligations in Washington typically continue until the child turns 18 and graduates from high school, whichever comes later. Support may extend longer if the child is disabled or still in high school past age 18 (usually not past age 19). Check Washington's specific age of majority and emancipation rules.
28. Can child support be modified in Washington?
Yes, if there's been a substantial change in circumstances since the last order. Examples include significant income changes for either parent, changes in parenting time, changes in health insurance or childcare costs, or the child's needs have changed. You must file a motion to modify in Washington court and demonstrate the change justifies modification.
29. What if my ex doesn't pay child support in Washington?
Washington's child support enforcement agency can help collect unpaid support through income withholding, tax refund interception, license suspension, contempt of court proceedings, credit bureau reporting, and other enforcement mechanisms. You can also file your own contempt motion in Washington court.
30. Do I still pay child support with 50/50 custody in Washington?
Maybe. Even with equal parenting time in Washington, the parent with higher income typically pays some child support because calculations consider both income disparity and parenting time. However, with true 50/50 time-sharing and similar incomes, support payments may be minimal or neither parent pays.
Child Custody
21. How does Washington determine child custody?
Washington courts use the "best interests of the child" standard. Factors considered include parents' wishes, child's wishes (if mature enough), child's relationships with parents and siblings, adjustment to home and school, mental and physical health of all parties, ability to provide stable environment, and any history of abuse or domestic violence.
22. What's the difference between legal custody and physical custody in Washington?
Legal custody is the right to make major decisions about the child's education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. Physical custody determines where the child primarily lives. Washington courts consider both types of custody and may award sole or joint custody of each type depending on the child's best interests.
23. Does Washington favor mothers in custody cases?
No. Washington law does not favor either parent based on gender. Courts make custody decisions based solely on the child's best interests. Fathers have equal rights to custody as mothers in Washington. The key factors are each parent's ability to care for the child and willingness to facilitate a relationship with the other parent.
24. At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Washington?
Washington law typically doesn't specify an exact age when a child can choose. However, judges generally give more weight to a child's preference around age 12 and older. The judge may interview the child to understand their wishes, but the child's preference is just one factor—it doesn't override the best interests analysis in Washington.
25. Can I move out of state with my children after divorce?
Relocation with children after divorce is regulated by Washington law. Most states require advance written notice to the other parent (often 60 days) before relocating a significant distance. The other parent can object, and the court will hold a hearing to determine if the move is in the child's best interest. Check Washington's specific relocation statutes before planning any move.
Property Division
16. How is property divided in Washington divorces?
Washington is a community property state. In community property states, all marital assets and debts are generally divided equally (50/50) between spouses.
17. What is considered marital property in Washington?
Marital property in Washington includes all assets and debts acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title or account. This includes homes, cars, bank accounts, retirement accounts, businesses, investments, and debts. Community property states presume all property acquired during marriage belongs equally to both spouses.
18. What is separate property in Washington?
Separate property is not divided in divorce and typically includes:
Assets owned before marriage
Inheritances received by one spouse (even during marriage)
Gifts given specifically to one spouse
Personal injury settlements (pain and suffering portion)
Property acquired after legal separation
However, separate property can become marital in Washington if commingled with marital funds or if the other spouse contributed to its increase in value.
19. Do I get to keep my inheritance in Washington?
Generally, yes—inheritances are separate property in Washington. However, if you deposited your inheritance into a joint bank account, used it to buy marital property, or your spouse helped maintain or improve inherited property, some or all of it may become marital property subject to division under Washington law.
20. How are retirement accounts divided in Washington?
Retirement accounts earned during marriage are marital property subject to division in Washington. This includes 401(k)s, IRAs, pensions, and other retirement benefits. Division requires a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) prepared by an attorney ($500-$2,500) to avoid taxes and penalties. The QDRO directs the plan administrator to split the account according to your Washington divorce decree.
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11. How long does a divorce take in Washington?
Washington has a mandatory waiting period of 90 days after filing. Uncontested divorces typically take 2-4 months from filing to final decree. Contested divorces take 6-18 months depending on complexity. High-conflict cases requiring trial can take 18-24 months or longer.
12. What are the basic steps in a Washington divorce?
File divorce petition with Superior Court
Serve spouse with divorce papers
Spouse files response (or waives service if uncontested)
Exchange financial information
Negotiate settlement or proceed to discovery
Attend mediation if required by court
Reach settlement or go to trial
Judge signs final divorce decree
13. Can we speed up the divorce process in Washington?
Yes. The fastest divorces happen when both spouses agree on all terms before filing, all paperwork is completed correctly the first time, financial disclosure is complete and accurate, and neither spouse contests anything. However, Washington's 90 days waiting period cannot be waived.
14. What is an uncontested divorce in Washington?
An uncontested divorce means both spouses agree on all major issues: property division, debt allocation, spousal support (if any), and if you have children, custody and child support. Uncontested divorces in Washington are faster, cheaper, and less stressful than contested divorces.
15. What happens if my spouse doesn't respond to the divorce papers?
If your spouse doesn't file a response within the required timeframe in Washington, you can request a default judgment. The Washington court will typically grant your divorce with the terms you requested in your petition. Your spouse loses the right to contest the divorce terms.
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Costs & Fees
6. How much does it cost to file for divorce in Washington?
Filing fees in Washington typically range from $250-$350 depending on your county. You'll also need to pay for service of process ($40-$150) and potentially other court costs during your case.
7. What's the total cost of divorce in Washington?
Total costs depend on whether your divorce is contested:
Online service (uncontested): $1,000-$1,500 including filing fees
Attorney (uncontested): $2,000-$6,000
Attorney (contested): $10,000-$50,000+
The biggest factor affecting cost is whether you can reach agreements without going to trial.
8. Can I get my filing fees waived in Washington?
Yes, if you cannot afford the filing fees. You must demonstrate financial hardship, typically by showing your income is at or below 125% of federal poverty guidelines or that you receive means-tested public assistance like SNAP, TANF, Medicaid, or SSI. If approved, the Washington court waives filing fees and service costs.
9. Who pays attorney fees in a Washington divorce?
Generally, each spouse pays their own attorney fees. However, Washington courts can order one spouse to pay the other's attorney fees if there's a significant income disparity and the requesting spouse demonstrates financial need and inability to pay.
10. What if I can't afford a divorce attorney in Washington?
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Filing & Residency
1. How long do I have to live in Washington before filing for divorce?
You or your spouse must have lived in Washington for resident at filing immediately before filing. This is a strict requirement—filing before you meet this residency requirement will result in your case being dismissed.
2. Which county should I file in?
You must file in the county where either you or your spouse has met the local residency requirement. If you both live in Washington but in different counties, you can typically choose either county. Most people file in the county where they currently live for convenience. Check with your local Superior Court for specific filing requirements.
3. Can I file for divorce in Washington if my spouse lives in another state?
Yes. As long as you meet Washington's residency requirement (resident at filing), you can file for divorce in Washington even if your spouse lives in another state. You'll need to properly serve your spouse according to Washington's rules for out-of-state service.
4. What grounds for divorce does Washington recognize?
Washington allows no-fault divorce, meaning you don't need to prove wrongdoing to end your marriage. The state also recognizes fault-based grounds, though most divorces proceed on no-fault grounds as they're simpler and faster. Contact a Washington attorney for specific grounds available.
5. Do we have to be separated before filing for divorce in Washington?
No. Washington does not require separation before filing for divorce based on no-fault grounds. Check Washington's specific requirements as they affect your timeline.
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Washington Divorce FAQ: 50 Most Common Questions Answered
Divorce is complicated, and Washington's laws can be confusing. Whether you're considering divorce or already in the process, you probably have questions. This comprehensive FAQ answers the 50 most common questions Washington residents ask about divorce, organized by topic for easy navigation.
Filing & Residency
1. How long do I have to live in Washington before filing for divorce?
You or your spouse must have lived in Washington for resident at filing immediately before filing. This is a strict requirement—filing before you meet this residency requirement will result in your case being dismissed.
2. Which county should I file in?
You must file in the county where either you or your spouse has met the local residency requirement. If you both live in Washington but in different counties, you can typically choose either county. Most people file in the county where they currently live for convenience. Check with your local Superior Court for specific filing requirements.
3. Can I file for divorce in Washington if my spouse lives in another state?
Yes. As long as you meet Washington's residency requirement (resident at filing), you can file for divorce in Washington even if your spouse lives in another state. You'll need to properly serve your spouse according to Washington's rules for out-of-state service.
4. What grounds for divorce does Washington recognize?
Washington allows no-fault divorce, meaning you don't need to prove wrongdoing to end your marriage. The state also recognizes fault-based grounds, though most divorces proceed on no-fault grounds as they're simpler and faster. Contact a Washington attorney for specific grounds available.
5. Do we have to be separated before filing for divorce in Washington?
No. Washington does not require separation before filing for divorce based on no-fault grounds. Check Washington's specific requirements as they affect your timeline.
Costs & Fees
6. How much does it cost to file for divorce in Washington?
Filing fees in Washington typically range from $250-$350 depending on your county. You'll also need to pay for service of process ($40-$150) and potentially other court costs during your case.
7. What's the total cost of divorce in Washington?
Total costs depend on whether your divorce is contested:
Online service (uncontested): $1,000-$1,500 including filing fees
Attorney (uncontested): $2,000-$6,000
Attorney (contested): $10,000-$50,000+
The biggest factor affecting cost is whether you can reach agreements without going to trial.
8. Can I get my filing fees waived in Washington?
Yes, if you cannot afford the filing fees. You must demonstrate financial hardship, typically by showing your income is at or below 125% of federal poverty guidelines or that you receive means-tested public assistance like SNAP, TANF, Medicaid, or SSI. If approved, the Washington court waives filing fees and service costs.
9. Who pays attorney fees in a Washington divorce?
Generally, each spouse pays their own attorney fees. However, Washington courts can order one spouse to pay the other's attorney fees if there's a significant income disparity and the requesting spouse demonstrates financial need and inability to pay.
10. What if I can't afford a divorce attorney in Washington?
Options include:
Apply for a filing fee waiver
Contact Washington Legal Aid for free representation (income limits apply)
Use an affordable online divorce service ($500-$2,000)
Hire an attorney for limited scope representation
Represent yourself (pro se) with help from court self-help centers
RETAINER FEE
PETITION
COURT FILING FEE
SUMMONS
AFFIDAVIT
MOTIONS
ARGUMENTS
TEMPORARY ORDERS
HEARINGS
SUBPOENAS
DEPOSITIONS
SETTLEMENT
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JUDGEMENT
TRIAL
APPEALS
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HEARINGS
SUBPOENAS
DEPOSITIONS
SETTLEMENT
CONFERENCES
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TRIAL
APPEALS
Process & Timeline
11. How long does a divorce take in Washington?
Washington has a mandatory waiting period of 90 days after filing. Uncontested divorces typically take 2-4 months from filing to final decree. Contested divorces take 6-18 months depending on complexity. High-conflict cases requiring trial can take 18-24 months or longer.
12. What are the basic steps in a Washington divorce?
File divorce petition with Superior Court
Serve spouse with divorce papers
Spouse files response (or waives service if uncontested)
Exchange financial information
Negotiate settlement or proceed to discovery
Attend mediation if required by court
Reach settlement or go to trial
Judge signs final divorce decree
13. Can we speed up the divorce process in Washington?
Yes. The fastest divorces happen when both spouses agree on all terms before filing, all paperwork is completed correctly the first time, financial disclosure is complete and accurate, and neither spouse contests anything. However, Washington's 90 days waiting period cannot be waived.
14. What is an uncontested divorce in Washington?
An uncontested divorce means both spouses agree on all major issues: property division, debt allocation, spousal support (if any), and if you have children, custody and child support. Uncontested divorces in Washington are faster, cheaper, and less stressful than contested divorces.
15. What happens if my spouse doesn't respond to the divorce papers?
If your spouse doesn't file a response within the required timeframe in Washington, you can request a default judgment. The Washington court will typically grant your divorce with the terms you requested in your petition. Your spouse loses the right to contest the divorce terms.
Property Division
16. How is property divided in Washington divorces?
Washington is a community property state. In community property states, all marital assets and debts are generally divided equally (50/50) between spouses.
17. What is considered marital property in Washington?
Marital property in Washington includes all assets and debts acquired during the marriage, regardless of whose name is on the title or account. This includes homes, cars, bank accounts, retirement accounts, businesses, investments, and debts. Community property states presume all property acquired during marriage belongs equally to both spouses.
18. What is separate property in Washington?
Separate property is not divided in divorce and typically includes:
Assets owned before marriage
Inheritances received by one spouse (even during marriage)
Gifts given specifically to one spouse
Personal injury settlements (pain and suffering portion)
Property acquired after legal separation
However, separate property can become marital in Washington if commingled with marital funds or if the other spouse contributed to its increase in value.
19. Do I get to keep my inheritance in Washington?
Generally, yes—inheritances are separate property in Washington. However, if you deposited your inheritance into a joint bank account, used it to buy marital property, or your spouse helped maintain or improve inherited property, some or all of it may become marital property subject to division under Washington law.
20. How are retirement accounts divided in Washington?
Retirement accounts earned during marriage are marital property subject to division in Washington. This includes 401(k)s, IRAs, pensions, and other retirement benefits. Division requires a Qualified Domestic Relations Order (QDRO) prepared by an attorney ($500-$2,500) to avoid taxes and penalties. The QDRO directs the plan administrator to split the account according to your Washington divorce decree.
Child Custody
21. How does Washington determine child custody?
Washington courts use the "best interests of the child" standard. Factors considered include parents' wishes, child's wishes (if mature enough), child's relationships with parents and siblings, adjustment to home and school, mental and physical health of all parties, ability to provide stable environment, and any history of abuse or domestic violence.
22. What's the difference between legal custody and physical custody in Washington?
Legal custody is the right to make major decisions about the child's education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. Physical custody determines where the child primarily lives. Washington courts consider both types of custody and may award sole or joint custody of each type depending on the child's best interests.
23. Does Washington favor mothers in custody cases?
No. Washington law does not favor either parent based on gender. Courts make custody decisions based solely on the child's best interests. Fathers have equal rights to custody as mothers in Washington. The key factors are each parent's ability to care for the child and willingness to facilitate a relationship with the other parent.
24. At what age can a child choose which parent to live with in Washington?
Washington law typically doesn't specify an exact age when a child can choose. However, judges generally give more weight to a child's preference around age 12 and older. The judge may interview the child to understand their wishes, but the child's preference is just one factor—it doesn't override the best interests analysis in Washington.
25. Can I move out of state with my children after divorce?
Relocation with children after divorce is regulated by Washington law. Most states require advance written notice to the other parent (often 60 days) before relocating a significant distance. The other parent can object, and the court will hold a hearing to determine if the move is in the child's best interest. Check Washington's specific relocation statutes before planning any move.
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Child Support
26. How is child support calculated in Washington?
Washington uses guidelines considering both parents' incomes, number of children, health insurance costs, childcare expenses, and parenting time allocation. Washington provides a child support calculator (often available online) to estimate payments, but courts can deviate from guidelines if circumstances warrant.
27. Does child support end at age 18 in Washington?
Child support obligations in Washington typically continue until the child turns 18 and graduates from high school, whichever comes later. Support may extend longer if the child is disabled or still in high school past age 18 (usually not past age 19). Check Washington's specific age of majority and emancipation rules.
28. Can child support be modified in Washington?
Yes, if there's been a substantial change in circumstances since the last order. Examples include significant income changes for either parent, changes in parenting time, changes in health insurance or childcare costs, or the child's needs have changed. You must file a motion to modify in Washington court and demonstrate the change justifies modification.
29. What if my ex doesn't pay child support in Washington?
Washington's child support enforcement agency can help collect unpaid support through income withholding, tax refund interception, license suspension, contempt of court proceedings, credit bureau reporting, and other enforcement mechanisms. You can also file your own contempt motion in Washington court.
30. Do I still pay child support with 50/50 custody in Washington?
Maybe. Even with equal parenting time in Washington, the parent with higher income typically pays some child support because calculations consider both income disparity and parenting time. However, with true 50/50 time-sharing and similar incomes, support payments may be minimal or neither parent pays.
Spousal Support
31. How does Washington determine spousal support (alimony)?
Washington courts consider multiple factors including income and earning ability of each spouse, age and health, duration of marriage, standard of living during marriage, education and employability, contributions as homemaker, and other relevant circumstances. Not all divorces result in spousal support—it depends on the specific situation.
32. How long does spousal support last in Washington?
Duration depends on circumstances in Washington. Short marriages (under 5 years) rarely result in long-term support. Longer marriages may result in support for several years or indefinitely. Common types include rehabilitative support (temporary while recipient gets training), transitional support (adjustment period), and permanent support (rare, usually very long marriages).
33. Can spousal support be modified in Washington?
Washington typically allows modification of spousal support if there's been a substantial change in circumstances like job loss, retirement, remarriage, cohabitation, or significant income change. Check if your Washington decree states support is "modifiable" or "non-modifiable"—non-modifiable support cannot be changed except by mutual agreement.
34. Does spousal support end if my ex remarries in Washington?
Typically, yes—unless your Washington decree specifically states otherwise. Most spousal support orders automatically terminate when the recipient remarries. However, orders don't always terminate for cohabitation—check your specific decree language and Washington law.
35. Are spousal support payments tax deductible in Washington?
No, not for divorces finalized after December 31, 2018. This is federal tax law affecting all states including Washington. For divorces finalized before January 1, 2019, spousal support is tax deductible for the payer and taxable income for the recipient.
Legal Representation
36. Do I need a lawyer to get divorced in Washington?
No, Washington allows self-representation. However, consider an attorney if your spouse has one, you have significant assets or debts, you own a business, there are contested custody issues, there's domestic violence history, you suspect hidden assets, or your spouse is being unreasonable. Simple uncontested divorces often work well with online service assistance.
37. What is limited scope representation in Washington?
Limited scope representation (unbundled services) means hiring a Washington attorney for specific tasks only, rather than full representation. Examples include reviewing documents, consulting on strategy, appearing at one hearing, or drafting settlement agreements. This saves money while getting professional help on crucial issues.
38. How do I find a good divorce attorney in Washington?
Contact the Washington State Bar Association for referrals, ask friends/family for recommendations, check attorney websites for family law experience, read online reviews (with caution), and schedule consultations with 2-3 attorneys before choosing. Ask about fees, experience with your issues, and communication style.
39. Can I change attorneys during my divorce in Washington?
Yes. You have the right to change attorneys in Washington at any time. You'll need to notify your current attorney in writing, file a notice of substitution of counsel with the court, and potentially pay your former attorney for work already completed. Changing attorneys mid-case can cause delays and increase costs.
40. What should I bring to my first attorney consultation in Washington?
Bring marriage certificate, prenuptial agreement (if any), list of all assets and debts, recent pay stubs and tax returns, information about children, any existing court orders, timeline of marriage events, and questions you want answered. Being organized makes the consultation more productive.
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41. What if my spouse is hiding assets in Washington?
Washington requires full financial disclosure under oath. If you suspect hidden assets, request formal discovery (interrogatories, document requests), subpoena financial records, hire a forensic accountant ($3,000-$15,000), and review unusual transfers or withdrawals. Washington courts penalize spouses who hide assets severely.
42. How does domestic violence affect Washington divorces?
Domestic violence significantly impacts custody and support decisions in Washington. The court considers any history of abuse when determining custody, often creating a presumption against the abuser having custody. Protection orders can be requested during Washington divorce proceedings for safety.
43. What if my spouse refuses to sign divorce papers in Washington?
Your spouse cannot prevent divorce in Washington. If they refuse to cooperate, have them served by sheriff or process server, request default judgment if they don't respond, or proceed with contested divorce if they respond but won't cooperate. Washington is a no-fault state—you don't need spouse's permission to divorce.
44. Can I get an annulment instead of divorce in Washington?
Washington allows annulments in limited circumstances proving the marriage was never valid: bigamy, underage marriage without consent, mental incompetence, fraud, or force/duress. Annulment is much harder to obtain than divorce in Washington and doesn't solve property/support issues differently.
45. What about military divorces in Washington?
Military divorces in Washington follow state law with federal protections. Servicemember's Civil Relief Act (SCRA) may delay proceedings if spouse is deployed. Military retirement benefits earned during marriage are divisible under Washington law. Consider consulting an attorney experienced in military divorces in Washington.
After Divorce
46. When is my divorce final in Washington?
Your Washington divorce is final when the judge signs the divorce decree and it's filed with the court. You'll receive a stamped copy of the final decree. This is usually several weeks after your final hearing. You're not legally divorced until you have this final Washington decree.
47. What do I need to do after my Washington divorce is final?
Get certified copies of decree, change name on driver's license and Social Security card, update estate planning documents and beneficiaries, divide retirement accounts via QDRO, transfer property titles as ordered in your Washington decree, change health and other insurance, open separate bank accounts, and establish credit in your own name.
48. Can I appeal my Washington divorce decree?
Yes, but appeals are difficult and expensive. You must file Notice of Appeal within 30 days of the final Washington decree. Appeals typically only succeed if the judge made legal error in applying Washington law, the decision was against manifest weight of evidence, or the judge abused discretion. Consult an appellate attorney.
49. What if my ex violates the Washington divorce decree?
You can file a motion for contempt of court in Washington. The court can enforce the decree through fines, makeup time, attorney fees paid by violating party, modification of custody/support, or jail time for repeated violations. Document all violations with dates and specifics.
50. Can we modify our Washington divorce decree later?
Some provisions can be modified under Washington law, others cannot. Child custody and support can be modified if substantial change in circumstances. Spousal support can be modified if decree says "modifiable." Property division and debt allocation are final once decree signed in Washington. You must file a post-decree motion to modify.
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Last Updated: February 2026
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